A lot has been said in the press. A lot has been said on social media, including this writer's blog. So let us not mince words, split hairs, or continue to call this person or that group out for a presumed lack of what we deem an adequate response and solely deal with ourselves.
Yes, I know. I saw the photos, read the tweets, scanned the various reports, and was jumping on the bandwagon but my son-in-law brought up a point that zeroed it all in for me... when whatever time comes for me - for all of us really - we won't be asked what this person or that person did in response the devastating plights that befall us (either nature or manmade) we will be asked, "what did YOU do?" There is no more statement, in my view, that hits more pointedly and poignantly.
By that same token and with that same self questioning and examination of conscience stance, in terms of accepting our fellow human being for who they are, where they are, etc, the same question could be asked, "What did YOU do?"
In terms of the former query if we answer, "well I bitched them out. I let everyone know that so and so was a charlatan or showboat - seeking to get something out of the moment without giving and helping for the moment." I don't think that will fall under an appropriate response or one that the gates of Heaven would want to hear.
So how about with the righteous or self-righteous accounting for how we have treated our community neighbor, the stranger, the immigrant, the refugee, the person with health issues, the person who's homeless or at the street corner continually begging for 'anything'. Are we really going to feel comfortable answering with, "well, look, I knew that <fill in the blank> was not a righteous person, you could tell from how they looked, what their name is, where they came from, whether they showed patriotism, where they worship, if they do , whom they love, their attitude, their skin color, their house or lack thereof, their stature or material wealth." WE aren't supposed to be the ones who decide another's worthiness. WE are supposed to DO unto others not DENY unto others.
This doesn't mean that atrocities and devastation when followed-up on with a seeming lack of empathy, sympathy, and assistance shouldn't be reported, called out, and made known. Rather, it means that our response should not be sitting on our hind ends and joining a bandwagon of waiting for someone else to act in a very public way so as to please OUR view of what is respectful and proper. Instead, wouldn't it be better if took the lead and responded with, "how can I help?" and then helping? Then leave it at that and move on back to doing what we were doing before we were called upon to exercise our faith and our humanity.
This doesn't mean that atrocities and devastation when followed-up on with a seeming lack of empathy, sympathy, and assistance shouldn't be reported, called out, and made known. Rather, it means that our response should not be sitting on our hind ends and joining a bandwagon of waiting for someone else to act in a very public way so as to please OUR view of what is respectful and proper. Instead, wouldn't it be better if took the lead and responded with, "how can I help?" and then helping? Then leave it at that and move on back to doing what we were doing before we were called upon to exercise our faith and our humanity.
Karma doesn't need our help. Karma finds it's own way and in it's own time. When things are quite public to begin with Karma is usually served with a fanfare that doesn't need any other trumpet and that sometimes is in the form of a public shaming. But overall, I'm content to wait for that show - and in the mean time do my best to make sure my own glass house is in good order.
Let's Have a Dialog.